Archive | January, 2013

My magic spell

30 Jan

In this days of storm I finally found a magic spell for my soul

You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.” ― Pema Chödrön

An important lesson

28 Jan

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Today I forgot an important lesson of life: Recognize the other as you

And I treated people like a shit with no specific reason just my anger and anxiety, just frustration and feeling like overwhelming.
I claimed the rights to handle the situation with a despotic attitude…
I don’t have any rights to treat people like this, especially people who loves me, who support me everyday, who trust me.

I know I just need to apologize but do you really think that? If you broke a mirror and then you apologizes with that do you really think that everything it’s fine? That everything it’s gonna be ok?

No..you’re simple broke in million pieces a moment of your life…and doesn’t matter if people forget..You don’t!

Sometimes I’m going around like a sort of Diogenes telling people about the important of truth and respect but what am I suppose to do now? I’m not a saint, I’m human and human being make a mistake..a lot of mistakes but they learn by that…

But me…today I simply forget The Golden Rule or ethic of reciprocity is a maxim, ethical code, or morality that essentially states either of the following:

One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself.

One should not treat others in ways that one would not like to be treated.

“tasmād_dharma-pradhānéna bhavitavyam yatātmanā | tathā cha sarva-bhūtéṣhu vartitavyam yathātmani ||” (तस्माद्धर्मप्रधानेन भवितव्यं यतात्मना । तथा च सर्वभूतेषु वर्तितव्यं यथात्मनि ॥ Mahābhārata Shānti-Parva 167:9)

In Mahābhārata, the ancient epic of India, comes a discourse where the wise minister Vidura advises the King Yuddhiśhṭhira thus, “Listening to wise scriptures, austerity, sacrifice, respectful faith, social welfare, forgiveness, purity of intent, compassion, truth and self-control – are the ten wealth of character (self). O king aim for these, may you be steadfast in these qualities. These are the basis of prosperity and rightful living. These are highest attainable things. All worlds are balanced on dharma, dharma encompasses ways to prosperity as well. O King, dharma is the best quality to have, wealth the medium and desire (kāma) the lowest. Hence, (keeping these in mind), by self-control and by making dharma (right conduct) your main focus, treat others as you treat yourself.”

Now I need to listen my soul and my hearth: I’m sorry for all sort of grief that I wounded.

Respect yourself and others will respect you.”― Confucius, Sayings of Confucius

Red waffles

27 Jan

Hi Folks,

today I decide to cook something new for my breakfast. After a long walk into nature near my place I was thinking about the power of food to comfort your feeling and..Voila’… I made a vegan waffles!
In the first time I was scared, I was thinking only a the difficult to make some vegan waffles but I found a very simple and easy recipe and I tried!

I use this ingredients:

1 cup flour

2 teaspoons baking powder

1/2 teaspoon cinnamon

1/4 teaspoon salt

red forest fruit  to taste

1 cup nondairy milk (I use soy)

1/2 cup agave syrup

I mixed the dry ingredients in a bowl. After I mixed the wet ingredients in a different bowl. Combined and mix until just mixed up. I preheated an iron plate and spray that some nonstick oil. Finally I cooked according to the waffle maker’s instructions, which usually means putting about 1/4 cup batter on the iron, closing, and waiting for a light to go out.

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During the breakfast I felt the joy to follow a tip by my soulmate who told me: Get out, get some fresh air and enjoy that…and it really work..!When I returned at home I was in a good mood and casually I read a beautiful quotes by Anaïs Nin

We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations.”

Something  you need simply to accept the reality and enjoy the chance to breathe, to see the sun, the wind in your face, the clouds in the sky…enjoy to live another plenty day!

xxx

The only thing she said

26 Jan

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She had an overwhelming desire to tell him, like the most banal of women. Don’t let me go, hold me tight, make me your plaything, your slave, be strong! But they were words she could not say.

The only thing she said when he released her from his embrace was, “You don’t know how happy I am to be with you.” That was the most her reserved nature allowed her to express.”

― Milan Kundera, The Unbearable Lightness of Being

Nothing to do

24 Jan

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“Nothing, Everything, Anything, Something:

If you have nothing, then you have everything,

because you have the freedom to do anything,

without the fear of losing something.”

Jarod Kintz

Read All About It

22 Jan

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You’ve got a heart as loud as lions

So why let your voice be tamed?

Baby we’re a little different

There’s no need to be ashamed

You’ve got the light to fight the shadows

So stop hiding it away

If the truth has been forbidden

Then we’re breaking all the rules

I wanna sing, I wanna shout

I wanna scream till the words dry out

So put it in all of the papers….

(EMELI SANDÉ)

A special race

21 Jan

IMG_20130119_135204When I was little and running on the race track at school, I always stopped and waited for all the other kids so we could run together even though I knew (and everybody else knew) that I could run much faster than all of them!
I pretended to read slowly so I could “wait” for everyone else who couldn’t read as fast as I could! When my friends were short I pretended that I was short too and if my friend was sad I pretended to be unhappy.
I could go on and on about all the ways I have limited myself, my whole life, by “waiting” for people. And the only thing that I’ve ever received in return is people thinking that they are faster than me, people thinking that they can make me feel bad about myself just because I let them and people thinking that I have to do whatever they say I should do.
My mother used to teach me “Cinderella is a perfect example to be” but I have learned that Cinderella can go fuck herself, I’m not waiting for anybody, anymore!
I’m going to run as fast as I can, fly as high as I can, I am going to soar and if you want you can come with me! But I’m not waiting for you anymore
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― C. JoyBell C.